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7 things you might be doing to push him away.

Updated: Jun 14, 2021

Sometimes, that special someone starts acting up and you don't know why. They seem difficult to reach and distant. Sometimes you wonder if it's something you did wrong or said wrong, well it you might be wrong and you might be right. You might be wrong sometimes, because he's probably cheating or falling out of love with you, and that's not your fault. Other times, you might just be right, you did something wrong.

Here are 7 things you are doing to push him away.


Ladies love perfection, it's their natural instinct, so when they see something wrong, they want to fix it. The problem is, sometimes, this is a toxic behavior to them and their partners. It can be toxic for ladies because they are trying to fix what's not worth fixing. Other times, it's toxic to men because if your method of correction feels like an attack, he gets exhausted trying to please you, then he gives up and starts to move back and close up to himself. Therefore, check your method and words when correcting him, do they come off as attack?

Inadequate appreciation:

Most men of this current generation just want to please their ladies and make them smile. Are you faulting in appreciating the little things he does? Or you are so focused on what he didn't do. When you fail to appreciate the little things a guy does, he starts to feel useless to you, his ego starts to get dented, and then he starts to withdraw and close up. Make sure you appreciate the little things he does, let him know you appreciate him, while at it, you can request or communicate those things you desire.